M&Ms aunt lynn?

i've decided to bribe charlie with m&m's for potty training thanks to aunt lynn! she had darby trained in one day with them!! worth a shot right? well, aunt lynn, it isn't working..I'm eating all the m&m's!!! and i've been trying to tell him he can watch his video (the DVD player that's stashed in the closet until our trip!) after he poops in the toilet too...this doesn't seem to be working either. stubborn little taurus!!